Showing posts with label wedding. Show all posts
Showing posts with label wedding. Show all posts
Tuesday, May 4, 2010
The best thing
On Saturday, my friends Gina and Ryan got married in Chicago.
I was one of Gina's bridesmaids, along with her sister and maid of honor, Andrea. It feels like I've been planning a long time for this, so I can imagine how it felt for the bride and groom. The entire weekend seemed to pass in a happy blur.
Friday was the rehearsal, dinner at Gibson's, and drinks at LuxBar. Saturday, the pre-ceremony hair, dress, and makeup preparations took place in my room (with refreshments provided by Andrea and Gina's mother.) Ryan and Gina were married in the gorgeous Bond Chapel at the University of Chicago. Afterward we took many photos on the university grounds and elsewhere around the city. The somewhat officious limo driver furnished two DVDs for our riding entertainment: ABBA Number Ones, and 1980's Kylie Minogue. Awesome. The reception followed at the Newberry Library. I'd never been before, but loved the overall atmosphere of the building. All the details made it a great night: lovely flowers, delicious hors d'oeuvres and dinner, cake both beautiful and tasty, excellent DJ, and a bunch of people who were ready to celebrate. Special kudos to Gina for booking the Chicago Cubs Dixieland Band for the lobby cocktail hour. A traditional hotel afterparty followed the reception. Finally, there was a big Sunday brunch with family and friends. Everything went wonderfully, but I felt like I drove down to Chicago and met Ryan and Gina Friday afternoon, blinked, and found myself in the Maggiano's dining room full of frittata and banana french toast. Not a bad place to end up if you're going to lose time, I have to say.
Gina and I have known each other since high school, and have been close friends for nearly a decade. Being part of her wedding, culminating in this big weekend, meant a lot to me. Seeing her and Ryan so happy together means even more. Right now they're in Kauai, probably drinking mai tais or frolicking in a waterfall or something. Seems like a pretty good start to me.
Tuesday, April 20, 2010
Week in review
Last week, that is. I returned from Pennsylvania on Monday.
Tuesday:
Picked up bridesmaid dress from the seamstress. Then, David Sedaris at the Overture Center. I enjoyed myself right from the opening selection, a preview from his upcoming book of fables. Or, as David said, not fables - since fables have morals. He also read a story I'd seen last year in The New Yorker, "Laugh, Kookaburra." I liked it at the time, but hearing him read stories brings them to a whole new place. There were more anecdotes and stories, a brief mention of genocide in Rwanda (so that some college kids who attended could get credit for the talk) and a book recommendation: Irish Girl by Tim Johnston. David mentioned that the title story had been included in a compilation he edited some years ago. Proceeds from the book went toward ... toward ... "It was for fucked up kids. I don't remember what was wrong with them. I did it so I would seem generous." I love you, David Sedaris.
Wednesday:
Wisconsin Film Festival! I saw The Exploding Girl at the Chazen Museum. I liked the movie, though it moved very, very slowly and not much happened. The lead actress reminded me of a young Kristen Schaal, though her character was nothing like Kristen Schaal. I thought the film did a surprisingly good job of building a tense, suspenseful mood throughout what was actually a not-too-suspenseful plot.
Thursday:
Wisconsin Film Festival official opening night. Some friends and I saw The Topp Twins: Untouchable Girls at the Orpheum. Lynda and Jools Topp are lesbian twins who have a successful comedy and music act in New Zealand. The documentary was top-notch. I was completely unfamiliar with the Topp Twins beforehand, but I came away with a great sense of their personalities, their history, and social and political issues in New Zealand. It was both entertaining (I think my favorite Topp Twins characters are Camp Mother and Camp Director) and unexpectedly touching. Director Leanne Pooley answered questions after the film, and said that Jools and Lynda will be performing in San Francisco when the film screens there this year. I'll continue to dream of them playing our local county fair.
Friday:
Harmony and Me at the Union Theater. A comedy set in Austin about a young, quirky, recently-broken-up, sometime-musician guy with oddball friends and family. Much of the movie was improvised, and as a veteran of seven 24-hour improv benefits since 2003, I could tell. In a good way, mostly. The film was very funny in many places, although as you might imagine from the description, it was also a little ... overly self-aware ... at times. Regardless, I enjoyed it. The director, Robert Byington, came out for a Q&A session afterward. Byington also played Harmony's older brother in the film - one of my favorite characters. It was a nice ending to my 2010 film festival experience.
Saturday:
Gina's bachelorette party in Chicago! I checked into our kick-ass suite at the Dana Hotel and Spa before my facial. It was a actually more than just a facial (that sounds dirty) - there was also a massage involved, and lots of heavenly scents and creams and aromatherapy. The only part I didn't enjoy was when the esthetician did the "extraction of impurities," at which point I swear to god she started beating me up. Maybe not quite, but holy crap! My nose! Was not expecting that! Anyway. Overall, it was great. I want to live at a spa. Or at least get treatments for an entire weekend sometime. Which would cost seventy-eight bajillion dollars, but might be worth it. While the others got their spa treatments, I had enough time to Brown Line it over to Laurie's Planet of Sound to celebrate Record Store Day with Sam and co. I picked up a CD, and - find of finds - spotted the book David Sedaris edited for fucked up kids in a used book box! Score. As a bonus, I heard ten minutes of DJ Pat Sansone spinning some sweet tunes before heading back to the Dana. Drinks with the ladies at the hotel bar, dinner at Nacional 27, liquor store, back to the suite. Mindful of lessons learned last summer at the hands of Europeans and patxaran, I suffered no ill effects from drinking. It was just a really fun night. Hooray for Gina's waning days as a bachelorette!
Sunday:
A short, brisk morning walk made me realize that I could live in a high-rise on State and Erie in downtown Chicago and be perfectly happy for a long time. Sunny, early spring days obviously strengthen that impression, but really. The area is bustling with activity, grocery stores and restaurants and shops everywhere, close to the CTA, view of the lake. Quiet on the twenty-third floor. And I could take public transport to parks or the 'burbs if I wanted, right? So when I come into a ton of money, it's settled: I'm moving into the spa at the Dana. Brunch was at Cuatro in the South Loop (shared coconut milk pancakes! chilaquiles!) and afterward it was time to head back home. I can't wait to see everyone again at the wedding in less than two weeks OH MY GOD.
Monday, March 22, 2010
Last snow of the year
I'm not jinxing it! It's just a fact. Damn it. Measurable accumulation at least. Right?
This was the view from the country club where I attended Gina's bridal shower on Saturday. It was a lovely time, Gina and Ryan received many fine things, and I'm realizing how close the wedding now is. (Something of which I'm sure they are well aware.) I wish my dress would ship already. Stay tuned in coming weeks for stress about fittings and getting the entire outfit put together. Wee! But really, I am excited. Lots of fun in store between now and early May.
In my more immediate future, work. Last time I went on a business trip, my destination was Beverly Hills. Later this week I have another trip ... to Peoria. Though this prospect is a little less thrilling, I have to admit that it's nice to not bother with flights and serious packing. The older twin nephews' birthday party is this weekend, so I'll be squeezing in a family visit before coming home. Must remember to wrap presents.
Apparently there is a river in Peoria, and my hotel is on it, so perhaps that will be nice?
This was the view from the country club where I attended Gina's bridal shower on Saturday. It was a lovely time, Gina and Ryan received many fine things, and I'm realizing how close the wedding now is. (Something of which I'm sure they are well aware.) I wish my dress would ship already. Stay tuned in coming weeks for stress about fittings and getting the entire outfit put together. Wee! But really, I am excited. Lots of fun in store between now and early May.
In my more immediate future, work. Last time I went on a business trip, my destination was Beverly Hills. Later this week I have another trip ... to Peoria. Though this prospect is a little less thrilling, I have to admit that it's nice to not bother with flights and serious packing. The older twin nephews' birthday party is this weekend, so I'll be squeezing in a family visit before coming home. Must remember to wrap presents.
Apparently there is a river in Peoria, and my hotel is on it, so perhaps that will be nice?
Thursday, September 4, 2008
Auspicious

I participated in three days of wedding festivities in Durham over the Labor Day holiday, for Lindsey and Vikas. It was a great weekend, full of delicious Indian food, henna, old and new friends, saris, ghee and rice, dancing, Indian percussion sticks, presents (for me and for the bride and groom), wedding cakes, Nelly songs, toasts, and a tremendous amount of love, good cheer and well wishes.
(I am getting slightly tired of comments about my mehendi, though. Even though it's all been positive. Is this what life is like all the time for people with real tattoos in prominent places? )
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